Be Inspired. Be Empowered. Be Transformed.
Step 1 – You always have a choice
Step 2 – Be Radically Responsible
Step 3 – Act Now
Step 4 – Own Who You Are
Step 5 – Have a Blast
HOW YOU DO ANYTHING IS
HOW YOU DO EVERYTHING (Page 15)
One of the overarching principles we teach in our work is how you do ANYTHING is how you do EVERYTHING. This means that how you show up to something small and seemingly pointless in life is how you show up in all aspects of your life the same pattern of self-sabotage that kicks in when you procrastinate on working out is the same self-sabotage that gets triggered when you’re up for a promotion. Perpetually showing up late with your friends is mirroring the same lack of respect that you show for yourself.
It’s all connected and everything is touching everything; you cannot selectively be a particular way in one area of your life without it bleeding into and affecting other areas. So when you begin to flex those sexy awareness muscles of yours, you are able to take what you’ve noticed in one area of your life and see where else it’s showing up – creating the space for exponential breakthroughs, growth, and new possibilities.
UNCONSCIOUS AGREEMENTS (Page 16)
One area to bring awareness to that we often don’t think about is what unconscious agreements we’re living by. Unconscious agreements are the beliefs or thoughts that go unexamined yet are secretly running the show (there is no choice when you’re on auto-pilot).
Those are the beliefs we have picked up along the ways from our family, society, institutions, friends, and partners that have shaped our view of the world. Most of us operate on the assumption that our beliefs, or agreements, are the RIGHT ones and that the world should meet our expectations of them.
DISAGREEMENT = Two opposing agreements (often unconscious) that do not align with each other